Thursday, March 8, 2007

Some questions for you to ponder...

Hi Ladies,

Here are some new questions for you...

  • How do you think the attitudes of Hattie' s grandparents are affected by their status in the town?
  • How did Hattie's family keep Adam a secret from her for so long, especially in such a small town? Think of Villa and how fast news travels. Is it easy to keep things a secret in a small community?

61 comments:

Anonymous said...

Mrs.B & Corner of the U. group,
I think that Hatties grandparents are way to obsessed w/ properness and are complete snobs!lol.Mostly Hatties nana(grandma). I bet that not many people like them because even if some people haven't met them, word would travel fast in a small town and most people probably wouldn't say very nice comments.

Anonymous said...

Like KEM said they are complete snobs and they are caught up in everybodies business.In a small town there is not much privacy, and Hatties Nana has learned to take advantage of it.Word does travel fast in a small town!

Anonymous said...

It would be kind of hard to keep a secret that big in a town that small.When they sent Adam away people probably thought he died and they forgot about it over the years.Now he's back and a lot of memories have probably been brought back.

Anonymous said...

Hey Mrs. B if you were Hattie and you haven't been told about adam yet, would even think about what it would be like to find out that you have an uncle who was different from other people? To be honest Adam is not as weird as I expected him to be.

Mrs. B said...

MMS: No, I guess if I didn't have a clue, I wouldn't think about it. I assume I am not being lied to unless I have a reason to believe I am.

Anonymous said...

Hey Corner of the Universe group what do you think of Adam? Do you think he's nice or do you think he's disrespectful to Nana and Papa? Is he as strange as you expected him to be?

Anonymous said...

Mrs.B,
What do you think of how Adam is treated by Nana and Papa? What do you think of how he is treated by Hattie and her family?

Mrs. B said...

MMS-I think it's sad that they treat him like he is a small child. It's hard because I sort of understand that they are trying to protect him, but I also think that he embarrasses them (even though they shouldn't be embarrassed) and they want to protect themselves from being made fun of by others in the community. What do you think?

Anonymous said...

I think that Hatties grandparents are the snobbiest people in the world! I mean its like I would have to wear a pink dress with gloves and ruffles, and possibly a hat to please my neat obsessed granny. I dont think anyone likes them, infact I would be scared of them.

Anonymous said...

Mrs.B
Like you said they shouldn't be embarrassed. It's not their fault it's not Adam's fault it's nobodies fault. God just chose to have them give birth to a child who is different. He is still a person with feelings and opinions just like us, except he has some trouble controlling his thoughts.

Anonymous said...

Hey MAR
I like the way you express yourself towards Nana. She is a total snob who thinks that she controls everyone and everything. he is wrapped up in what everybody else is doing like it is her business to know. Don't you guys think?

Anonymous said...

Corner group,
Hatties parents probably just told everyonne to keep quiet about Adam. It would also help that he was far awway in a boarding school in Ohio.If something big was happening here, i know word would travel fast!W/ such a small place, everyone would know the secret.

Anonymous said...

Hey KEM
Do you have anybody like Nana in your family? If so how do they act toward you?
Hey MAR
How do you think Nana should act toward Adam? How would it be different from how she treats him now?
Mrs.B
If you could take over Nana's body, would you apoligize to all the people she has hurt? If so, how?

Anonymous said...

Hey Corner group!MMS,
How would you react is all of the sudden,your pareents told you that you had a "long lost" uncle that had a diability living faar aaway from u?

Anonymous said...

Hey Corner of the Universe group
what did you think of the carnival? What did you think of how Hattie' mom and dad acted when Hattie asked if they could take Adam?How do you think Hattie feels toward Adam? Do you think she sometimes feels uncomfortable around Adam?

Anonymous said...

Whats up corner group!?MAR,
If you met someone like Adam what would you do w/ him?Would you treat him like he has dissabilities or would you act like you never noticed?

Anonymous said...

MMS,
I don't recall anyone in my family like Hattie's Nana but I do think I've met other people like that.I don't know how anyone can even stand to be so prim and proper.I like to get muddy and run around my neighborhood barefoot, screaming at the top of my lungs with my friends but if someone like Nana caught me doing that, they would band me for life!Although i'm sure my parents wouldn't appreciate that either.

Anonymous said...

Corner group,
I think Nana is really mean,prim and proper so I don't like her very much, but I absolutley, without a doubt, positivley can not STAND Nancy. She is a downright mean,selfish,stuck-up,bratty little bully who obviously tries to be "cool" around Janet and other people just for attention.I think you catch my drift.Janet isn't a very, what you'd call a "good person" either from what the book describes her.Nana is really getting on my nerves.Its dumb how she treats Adam, just because she's embarrassed having Adam around her, sometimes goofing off.It's nice how Angel acts like Adams just a regular person and its cute how Adam has a crush on Angel Valentine but I feel bad for Hattie because she feels left out.It was kind of gross how the author wrote that Adam looked at Angel from head to toe and stopped "in the middle".I'm really excited about the book and can't wait to read more!!!:)
love,
KEM

Anonymous said...

MMS,
I think Adam is actually not as "goofy" as I expected him to be.I think he's usually nice but he can't quite control how he acts towards nana & papa.Some people might not even notice anything odd about him,like Angel,and might only think he's just another person like you and me.As far as I'm concerned,he is.

Anonymous said...

Mrs.B,
If someone called you a "big freak" like Nancy called Adam what would you do? Would you hit them,yell at them,cry,or just walk away? Or maybe walk away and then cry? Would you tell someone that another person called you that?

Anonymous said...

Dear MMS
I think that Hatties Nana and Papa need to loosen up a bit dont you think? I mean they are always so prim and proper.

Anonymous said...

Dear mms,
I think Hatties Nana should treat him with respect. He is her SON not a piece of paper laying on the street! I think if she did really took care of him Nana and Adam would have fun together. Not try to ignore and yell at each other all the time. What do you think?

Anonymous said...

mms
I think Adam is very nice, he is just a little fast sometimes but that is ok. Even thought he has a dissability, he is very nice. I dont think Adam is dissrespectfull to his mom and dad, but I think his mom and dad are disrespectfull to him, dont you think? Also Adam is not as weird as I thought he would be, I was really suprised by that.

Anonymous said...

mms
I think the carnival sounds fun. Also I think that the carnival is a important part of the book. I think that Hatties parents acted like Adam was a little kid who would burn the house down, so they were unsure wether to leave him or not. I think Hattie understands what Adam is going through, so I think he is like best friend to her. I dont think she really feels uncomfortable with Adam.

Anonymous said...

Kem,
If I was with Adam I would not treat him like he has a dissability, I would treat him like a normal person. Wouldnt you?

Anonymous said...

Dear kem and mms,
Since Adam isnt alowed to got to the carnival what do you think will happen? Do you think Adam and Angle are going to start dating? Do you think she will go or will she leave him? Do you think she likes him back? WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN? Let me know soon!

Anonymous said...

kem and mms,
If you were Angle, and Adam asked you out what would you do? Would you give him a chance? Would you stay with him? Do you think Angle has a boyfriend? What would Adam do if that happened?

Anonymous said...

Mrs. B
If you were Angel Valentine and you knew Adam liked you what would you do? Wuold you be kind of nervous or relaxed?

Mrs. B said...

MMS-Wow, you are a blogging machine! Okay, I am going to try and answer your questions:

1. First of all, I would not want to for one second be inside Nana's body because she is a bad, bad person! However, if I had to, I would certainly apologize to the people she has hurt. I am a fan of sincere and heart felt apologies that cite specific actions and wrong doings, so I guess I would go that route.

2. Honestly if I were Angel and Adam liked me, I would hope that I could be kind to him, and not be freaked out by it. I don't think Angel really considers Adam to be someone she would date, so hopefully I would be able to let him know that in a compassionate way. Then I would hope we could be friends.

Mrs. B said...

KEM-If someone called me that I think I would just walk away, and cry later. However, due to Adam's problems, I think it would be harder for him to have that much self control. I don't ever mind telling people that others have made fun of me because I try to laugh along with the joke. It's a defense mechanism.

Anonymous said...

MAR,
I'm not sure what will happen since Adam can't go to the carnival. I'm kind of wondering if he'll go another day.I'm not sure if Adam and Angel will start dating because it seemed like Angel had a boyfriend or something when she was picked up by the man who looked like some kind of star in the convertible.I'm not sure what will happen.It's a mystery to me.

Anonymous said...

MAR,
If I were Angel and Adam asked me out,but I'd try not to show it.For me it really is hard to decide whether I'd say yes or no.He seems like a nice guy but it would be hard to handle.I guess I'd give it a try.I think Angel has a boyfriend because I got suspicious when the man with the convertible picked Angel up for the carnival.I think Adam would either go BELISTIC(if that's a word)or get very sad and start to cry really hard.

Anonymous said...

MMS,
If you were Hattie would you feel a bit left out because Adam is so focused on Angel?Do you think that it was some-what rude that Adam came up to Hattie's home asking for Angel and then when he found out she wasn't there he left without thinking about Hattie?

Anonymous said...

Hey corner group,
I love the book!
-MMS,
Who's your favorite character so far?Why do you like them?
-MAR,
Do you want Anggel and Adam to start dating?Or do you think they'd be better off just being friends?
-Mrs.B,
Who do you think is worse: Nancy or Hattie's Nana?Why?

Anonymous said...

Mrs.B,MMS,& MAR,
I think that its cool that Hattie wants to spend time with Adam. I'm a little bit afraid of what will happen if Adam and Angel go on a date.It might a big mess or just a regular date.What do you guys think?

Mrs. B said...

KEM-I changed my mind, you get the blogging prize for now!

Here are my answers to your questions:

1. I think Nana and Nancy are both awful, but I think Nana is worse. I believe this because as a parent she should love her child unconditionally and she seems to put conditions on her love for Adam. It's as if she's love him more if he were "normal" and that really bugs me. That said, Nancy is also nasty because she comes right out and expresses her meanness and doesn't seem to feel any remorse for her actions at this point in the novel.

2. I think a date between Adam and Angel would be a disaster. As I said before, I don't think Angel would go for a guy like Adam. And I agree about the boyfriend. Very perceptive prediction!

Also, it's ballistic, so you were on the right track with the word!

Mrs. B said...

KEM-I changed my mind, you get the blogging prize for now!

Here are my answers to your questions:

1. I think Nana and Nancy are both awful, but I think Nana is worse. I believe this because as a parent she should love her child unconditionally and she seems to put conditions on her love for Adam. It's as if she's love him more if he were "normal" and that really bugs me. That said, Nancy is also nasty because she comes right out and expresses her meanness and doesn't seem to feel any remorse for her actions at this point in the novel.

2. I think a date between Adam and Angel would be a disaster. As I said before, I don't think Angel would go for a guy like Adam. And I agree about the boyfriend. Very perceptive prediction!

Also, it's ballistic, so you were on the right track with the word!

Mrs. B said...

KEM-I changed my mind, you get the blogging prize for now!

Here are my answers to your questions:

1. I think Nana and Nancy are both awful, but I think Nana is worse. I believe this because as a parent she should love her child unconditionally and she seems to put conditions on her love for Adam. It's as if she's love him more if he were "normal" and that really bugs me. That said, Nancy is also nasty because she comes right out and expresses her meanness and doesn't seem to feel any remorse for her actions at this point in the novel.

2. I think a date between Adam and Angel would be a disaster. As I said before, I don't think Angel would go for a guy like Adam. And I agree about the boyfriend. Very perceptive prediction!

Also, it's ballistic, so you were on the right track with the word!

Mrs. B said...

KEM-I changed my mind, you get the blogging prize for now!

Here are my answers to your questions:

1. I think Nana and Nancy are both awful, but I think Nana is worse. I believe this because as a parent she should love her child unconditionally and she seems to put conditions on her love for Adam. It's as if she's love him more if he were "normal" and that really bugs me. That said, Nancy is also nasty because she comes right out and expresses her meanness and doesn't seem to feel any remorse for her actions at this point in the novel.

2. I think a date between Adam and Angel would be a disaster. As I said before, I don't think Angel would go for a guy like Adam. And I agree about the boyfriend. Very perceptive prediction!

Also, it's ballistic, so you were on the right track with the word!

Mrs. B said...

KEM-I changed my mind, you get the blogging prize for now!

Here are my answers to your questions:

1. I think Nana and Nancy are both awful, but I think Nana is worse. I believe this because as a parent she should love her child unconditionally and she seems to put conditions on her love for Adam. It's as if she's love him more if he were "normal" and that really bugs me. That said, Nancy is also nasty because she comes right out and expresses her meanness and doesn't seem to feel any remorse for her actions at this point in the novel.

2. I think a date between Adam and Angel would be a disaster. As I said before, I don't think Angel would go for a guy like Adam. And I agree about the boyfriend. Very perceptive prediction!

Also, it's ballistic, so you were on the right track with the word!

Anonymous said...

KEM
I would be like oh my gosh! Why didn't you tell me?I deserve to know? I would be so curios about what he was like and how he would act.

Anonymous said...

MAR
Exactly! Nana is an uptight, prim ,and proper,stuck up, in everybody elses business,snob.She can't go around and act like she owns everyone.

Anonymous said...

MAR
I smell LOVE!Adam and Angel make such a cute couple. Angel acts like he doesn't have dissability(but I think she knows).She is so nice and careful of his feeelings.He likes her so much.It is so sweet!

Anonymous said...

MAR
If Adam asked me out, I would be hesitant with my answer. I might feel uncomfortable around him. He seems sweet, but I don't know.Angel might have a boyfriend. Hattie keeps saying that she is pretty.Adam would be so upset if he found out that Angel had a boyfriend.After all he if madly in love with Angel!!!

Anonymous said...

KEM
I would feel really left out. Adam is kind of mean in that sort of way. Hattie is sooooooo nice to him,how could he treeat her like that?

Anonymous said...

KEM
My favorite character so far is Hattie because she is sooooooo nice to Adam and I think she understands where Adam is coming from. being left out and all that.

Anonymous said...

KEM
Adam seems to get nervous around Angel but it also seems that she doesn't care so it is hard to tell whether it will make a big mess or be a regular date. I know one thing for sure Adam really likes Angel.

Anonymous said...

Hey peeps!Whats up?
Do you guys think that Hattie is jealous that Adam is paying so much attention to Angel?Would you be jealous if you were Hattie?

Anonymous said...

Corner group,
I can't stand the way Nana- like Mrs.B said- acts almost as if she would be happier if Adam were "normal"!!!

Anonymous said...

MMS,
Do you think that Adam & Angel go good together or do you think it would be a complete disaster?

Anonymous said...

mms and kem,
Angel probably has a boyfriend,you know that guy who picled her up? what do you think would happen if Adam found out? kem I know you already amswered this so, yeah. mms I dont think you did, but do you think that Adam would be mad at Angel, or himself? Do you think he would REALLY depressed? I think he would.

Anonymous said...

Hey group!
I have a question for you, if you got this far, what would you think if you saw pretzal lady? I would probably be amaized and creeped out. I mean it is like thay dont have any bones!

Anonymous said...

Hey Corner of the Universe group,
What do you think of Leila?I really like her. To bad she won't be here for very long since she is with the circus.She makes a really good friend to Hattie.At least she will be with Hattie long enough to celebrate Hattie's birthday.I like the fact that Leila doesn't think Adam is weird.She was looking forward to meeting Adam.

Anonymous said...

mms, kem, and Mrs.B
Dont you think that it was kind of mean to make Adam shop for knew clothes on the day of the carnival? Why do you think Nana and Papa would let him shop the next day? Probably because thay dont think carnivals are propper enough.

Anonymous said...

kem,
what do you think the girl in the book that Hattie met is going to play in the book? What do you think she will do?

Anonymous said...

Mrs.B
What do you think about Hattie meeting Leila? What do you think of Leila traveling with the circus and not being able to stay with Hattie?What do you think about how Leila acts toward Adam?

Anonymous said...

Hey Corner of the Universe group,
What did you think about Adam just liking to watch the ferris wheel instead of riding on it? Do you think that he is just fascinated with the movement, or do you think it is one of his many personalities like shyness or nervousness?

Anonymous said...

Hey Corner of the Universe group,
What did you think of the picnic that Hattie went to with her family for the 4th of July? How did you feel when you read about Nancy calling Adam a big freak again? What did you think when Adam had a hissyfit or tantrum,or whatever you want to call it, over what he was going to have for dessert?I think that it is one of his many personalities. Like maybe it is stubborness.What do you think?

Mrs. B said...

Your group is doing the most blogging BY FAR!!! I can't believe you have 58 comments.

MAR-I think they were trying to divert his attention from the carnival by shopping for new clothes. I think they are just plain mean anyway, so I am not surprised by anything they do! You're right-they certainly would not find a carnival to be "proper."

MMS-I like Leila! Since I've read the book, I don't want to say much about her character, but you guys are right, she is a great friend for Hattie. I think she's kind to Adam and I enjoy her ability to adapt to all sorts of people. I think it's because of the fact that she moves around a lot and always has to adapt. Plus her parents are part of a circus, so she knows what it's like to be labeled "different."

Anonymous said...

-mms and kem
I like Leila beacause she does not see Adam as different. That is what I like about her. Do you think Adam has ever been on a ride before? It is kind of wierd that he doesnt like to go on rides, dont you think?

Anonymous said...

What did you guys thin when Adam was at the 4th of July festivle? He got really mad about the whole chocolate icecream thing, dont you think? I mean he even said "I dont care who drives the truck. {I cant really say what he said.} I was kind of shocked when he said that, werent you? i thought he had a huge emotional thing, but i guess he has a big anger thing too. What would you have done after Adam ran from the picnic area? Would you have felt uncomfortable to follow Adam? It was kind of odd that he was really mad, then super nice again. I guess that is just the way he is,and I am just fine with that.